View Article  Current News

Well Cora is here from Europe where she has had a very successful show career and is beginning her work career. Everyone who sees her is amazed at her beauty and way of movement. My kids are blown away with her temperament and how she is willing to walk calmly on a leash for even my smallest children. She is exceptionally sweet and still has a ton of drive for the Tug, a ball and good old fashioned play. WE are excited to have her as part of our program.

We also have our P litter on the ground that was much awaited, and as the pups grow we are convinced more and more everyday that we picked the right pairing. The pups already at a very young age are showing great independence, drive and confidence. These pups are sure to be well known in the Doberman community.

Upcoming litters include a Half Red Half Black litter from Athena who like Uragan (the sire she is bred to) has earned her ZTP (Breeding evaluation) In Europe with the highest scores. These pups are sure to be great sport prospects and protective family companions. Both Uragan Best of Island and Athena Raiden Sky are great house dogs with my family, get along well with the pack, and love to work.

Next is a litter from Casa di Oro Donna Delana "Ruby" also bred to Uragan, and those who met her pups from last year can understand why some people were on a waiting list ever since her last litter. These will be some of the highest quality Doberman Puppies available anywhere. Ruby also earned her ZTP in Europe and is both an impressive working dog as well as a beloved family companion. She is my wifes favorite dog moving ahead of Coco since Ruby does not give kisses ;-)

Temperatures are hot here at the kennel and it is often time to remind folks how to care for their Dobes in the heat. Heat exhaustion can really take a toll on Dobermans, their short coats don't offer them much protection from the sun and they heat up very quickly. Wiping them down with wet towels while outside as well as other neat cooling products make for better summer recreation. Be sure to keep them drinking plenty of water so their bodies have the ability to cool down. Everywhere you go be sure to take water and dishes for your dog as you can never be sure of what you can find at your destination. I don't like to recommend other peoples products very often but here is a good choice:

http://www.vkrpets.com/K9%20Cooler.html?gclid=CNjezeWXt5oCFSQeDQod4xexdQ

Also here in Phoenix you have to be careful of the temperature of pavement, use alternatives when you can, or go early morning or late evening for your walks. If you have to walk at the hottest parts of the day consider boots to protect your dogs tender pads.

 

View Article  Online dog training material

Many people ask us all the time about some training resources, and our forum is one great place to start, we also have phone and email which many people have taken advantage of, and now we have partnered with a friend of mine that I used to train with (I have trusted him even with my own dogs in the past) who offers some online training courses many of you may find very helpful. His courses are much cheaper than private lessons, and you will see some good results. Try it out and see what you think!

Online training Now!

 

Also wanted to pass on some good advice :)

An Old Farmer's Advice:    


* Your fences need to be horse-high, pig-tight
And bull-strong.

*Keep skunks and bankers at a
Distance.

 *Life is simpler when you plow around the stump.

* A bumble bee is considerably faster than a
John Deere tractor.

 * Words that soak into your ears are whispered...not yelled.

  * Meanness don't jes' happen overnight.

* Forgive your enemies. It messes up their heads.

* Do not corner something that you know is meaner
Than you.

* It don't take a very big person to carry a
Grudge.

* You cannot unsay a cruel word.

* Every path has a few puddles.

* When you wallow with pigs, expect to get dirty.

* The best sermons are lived, not preached.

* Most of the stuff people worry about ain't Never gonna happen anyway.

* Don't judge folks by their relatives.

* Remember that silence is sometimes the best
  Answer.

* Live a good, honorable life. Then when you get
  Older and think back, you'll enjoy it a second time.

* Don't interfere with somethin' that ain't Bothering you none.

* Timing has a lot to do with the outcome of a Rain dance.  

   * If you find yourself in a hole, the first thing to do is stop diggin'.  

* Sometimes you get, and sometimes you get got.

 * The biggest troublemaker you'll probably ever
Have to deal with, watches you from The mirror every mornin'.

 * Always drink upstream from the herd.

 * Good judgment comes from experience, and a
Lotta that comes from bad judgment.

 * Lettin' the cat outta the bag is a whole lot
Easier than puttin' it back in.

* If you get to thinkin' you're a person of some
Influence, try orderin' somebody else's dog around.

 * Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply.
Speak kindly. Leave the rest to God.

--

Don't pick a fight with an old man. If he is too old to fight,

he'll just kill you.

 

 

 

Stephen Parsons 
Quality Doberman Pinschers

www.familydobes.com

480-993-9797

 

View Article  Kennel updates

Well it has been a while since we have posted, it seems like time has flown right by! It is already triple digits here in Phoenix and slowing down our training goals. Elsewhere in the world people are seeing spring and it will roll right into summer. We have kept very busy here at the kennel but wanted to pause and Share exciting news about our newest litter. Escada Vom Excalibur was bred in Germany to Casa di oro Gregory to create a very special litter with high drive, steady nerve, correct structure and great health traits. This is a pedigree not often found in America and we are thrilled to be bringing it to America. So thrilled we are keeping a pup for ourselves to become part of our program in the future.  She had seven beautiful puppies a mix of reds and blacks, and we are thrilled with their quality. Escada thankfully is a careful and caring mother and we expect big things from this litter.

We are also excited that Ramon and Questo Betelges just earned their ZTP rated V1A (in Europe) which of course we knew would happen, but makes us all the more excited that we have bred to these outstanding males.

 

 

 

Stephen Parsons 
Quality Doberman Pinschers

www.familydobes.com

480-993-9797

 

View Article  Newsletter with health warning!!!

Sadly here is another thing we need to avoid with dogs, it isn't internet panic it really happens

Gorilla Glue poses danger to dogs

March 6th, 2009 @ 10:50pm

By Ed Yeates

SALT LAKE CITY -- Dogs have discovered Gorilla glue to be quite appetizing. But when it's ingested it suddenly grows into a huge, ugly alien inside their bodies.

Gorilla Glue is a great bonding material. You can buy it in any hardware-lumber store, variety store, even craft shops. People who do a lot of handy work love this stuff, but then so do dogs.

The glue has the consistency of honey, and for dogs has a somewhat sweet overlay. When a Murray Labrador named Ruby lapped it up, she got sick.

"We couldn't figure out what was going on. We'd been watching her and watching her for two weeks sort of going downhill," Ruby's owner, Jane Rice, said.

"The initial surprise was the dramatic X-ray. I could not believe that the stomach was full of whatever it was," said Dr. Eric Belnap of Redwood Veterinary Hospital.

Whatever it was, was a large, hardened mass in Ruby's stomach, and it had to be surgically removed. Belnap said it was almost like a Nerf football. "I was in shock. It looked like a big piece of lava rock," he said.

The glue slipped through Ruby's mouth and down the throat. But inside the stomach, it reacted with hydrochloric acid and grew into a huge mass. Apparently the glue was so appetizing she had eaten most of it, burying the remains in her favorite backyard spot.

"She had buried the bottle, and my husband had found it coming up out of the ground," Rice said.

That's all in the past now. Ruby is alive and well, fully recovered, with no apparent side effects.

Ruby's initial symptoms, within the first few days after eating the adhesive, included vomiting and a loss of appetite. Veterinarians suggest owners keep Gorilla Glue high up away from a dog's view.

More tips to keep your pets safe

As we head toward warmer weather, safety hazards for your pets abound, both inside and out. Ordinary objects in your home and yard can be a serious threat.

Temma Martin with the Utah Animal Adoption Center warns pet owners, especially new pet owners, that dangers can be found all around the home and "pet proofing" is a must.

"Be very cautious about accessible wires and giving (your pets) people food," she suggests. "And there's always some new product people are just bringing into their homes that we're discovering could be dangerous. Sadly, it can go beyond just common sense."

Here are some tips to keeping your pets safe:

  • Home Décor
    • Windows
      • Avoid vertical blinds, pooling drapery, ornate tassels and long cords that can become strangulation hazards. If a dog gets caught in any of these, he could panic and bring objects around him crashing down.
      • Think twice about mini-blinds, which can get bent beyond repair when a curious dog tries to see the outside world.
      • Fabric shades, café curtains and draperies are excellent choices for homes with dogs.
    • Furniture
      • Provide comfy beds in each room or designate one piece of furniture as your pet's place. Cover this piece with a washable throw and teach your pet that this is the only piece of furniture he is allowed to frequent.
      • Make sure slipcovers are machine-washable, especially if a light-colored solid is your upholstery of choice.
      • Leather and vinyl furniture is easy to clean, but can be damaged by too-long toenails! Be sure to clip your cat's and dog's nails regularly!
    • Walls
      • Use washable semi-gloss paint in areas where your pet may sprinkle spittle on the walls.
      • Washable vinyl-backed wallpaper is easier to clean than traditional paper-backed wallpaper.
      • Relegate antique wallpapers or fabric wall treatments to the top half of the walls; paint or hang a washable wall covering below.
    • Floors <UL
    • Machine-washable area rugs are easier to keep clean than wall-to-wall carpeting. If urine soaks into carpet backing, it's nearly impossible to remove. If you do decide to stick with wall-to-wall, it's a good idea to stock up on carpet care products, especially enzymatic cleaners made specifically for pet accidents.
    • Roll up vegetable-dyed oriental rugs until your new dog is fully house-trained—and if rugs have decorative fringe, don't put them back down until your pet is well past teething age (over 8 months)!
    • Tile, sheet linoleum and Pergo® are pet-friendly floorings that allow you to easily wipe away accidental droppings.
    • Seal hardwood floors with polyurethane to prevent urine odor from lingering.

·  Keep Your Pet's Eating and Sleeping Areas Tidy

  • Spill-proof water bowls help prevent drooly drinkers from spilling on the floor.
  • A large, absorbent placemat under food and water bowls will make for easier clean-up after messy eaters.
  • Frequently wash your pet's blanket and bedding; use a lint roller on pillows.
  • Scoop the poop out of your cat's litter box at least once or twice a day.

·  Cleaners
If you use a product that contains ammonia to clean up your pet's urine, you won't be able to smell remaining odors, but your pet will! In fact, ammonia-based cleaners can actually attract pets and encourage them to urinate where they've made mistakes before. Instead, have on-hand a special enzymatic cleaner specifically made for cleaning up pet messes—all major pet stores carry them. For best results, be sure to follow the directions on the product label.

·  Grooming

  • Regularly trim and file your pet's nails to keep her from shredding furniture.
  • Brush kitty or pooch regularly to remove dead skin and hair that will otherwise end up on furniture and floors.
  • Wipe off your pet's paws and mouth after meals.
  • Trim the hair around your pet's bottom to help keep excrement from clinging.
  • Make it easy to give your pet a good rubdown after outdoor romps. Place a machine-washable area rug by the door and keep a towel handy near the entry.

·  Animal-Friendly Decor
Here are some fun ways to spruce up your home for your companion animals:

  • Internal Dutch doors between rooms make it easy for you to manage which pets are allowed where. They also eliminate the need for awkward baby gates.
  • Outdoor cat enclosures can be attached to the house with a cat door to allow free access for your feline friend.
  • Fenced-in yards should have a buried, inward-facing section to prevent dogs from digging and tunneling.
  • If you have cats, be sure to install high-quality metal screens on all windows.
  • Install a folding (hinged) cat perch under a window for kitty's viewing pleasure.
  • How about a built-in alcove for your dog's crate?
  • By adding a porthole to a kitchen cabinet, you've got yourself a new place for a cat litter tray! Not only will it look clean and neat, but the porthole will keep dogs from getting in and munching on cat waste.
  • A small lift along a wall where the litter box or food and water bowls are placed would make cleaning and feeding a lot easier for senior pet owners. The lift would be used to raise and lower the litter box or food bowls.
  • If you're really handy, how about an outdoor septic disposal system for dog waste?!

And remember to increase your pet's roaming privileges slowly, room by room. Going from restriction to complete freedom can set a pet up to fail.

Adapted from articles by Jacque Lynn Schultz, Director, ASPCA Companion Animals Program Advisor, and Dr. Stephen Zawistowski, Senior Vice President, ASPCA National Program Office

 

 

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View Article  Doberman puppy for sale

It's been an exciting and busy time at Family Dobes kennel your stop for the best Doberman Puppy for Sale anywhere in the United States. We have some beautiful Doberman puppies from Farra that were sired by Ramon Betelges some of the only puppies from Ramon in America! If you want a high quality Doberman puppy for sale, why not have one of the best? Farra is a Balkan Sieger show winner and has been an exception family companion. The Doberman puppy for sale you would choose from her would be either a Red European Male Doberman puppy for sale or a Red Female European Doberman puppy for sale. Either way you are sure to be satisfied since all of our Doberman puppies for sale come with a health and temperament Guarantee. It is important when you get a European Doberman puppy for sale that you deal with someone who will be there for you throughout the process, and really stand behind your Doberman Puppy. I have seen so many people be taken advantage of when they buy a Doberman puppy for sale and do not receive what they thought they had paid for. We want your experience to be positive with your Doberman puppy for sale and that is why we stand behind them with more than just words. We can help you with advice on health, training and behavior as well as many other things you will experience with your Doberman puppy for sale.

                We also still have some great young trained Doberman Pinschers available right now and have some great prospects for fully trained Doberman Pinschers for sale. A Fully trained Doberman will have on and off leash obedience as well as specialized protection training. If you have unique circumstances let us custom train a Great Doberman for you so that you can feel safe and secure the way you deserve to!

                We also have one other very special litter coming in April that we are keeping kind of quiet, but if you are looking for an outstanding sport dog for Schutzhund, mondio ring, French ring, or other dog sport, or if you simply need the finest Protective companion available, this is a well titled, well health tested set of parents to bring you the very best Black Doberman puppy for sale anywhere. This bloodline is not currently available in the states, so this represents a rare opportunity indeed! Are you interested in a sneak peek? Email us for details.

Here you can find some other great resources for your Doberman puppy for sale

http://www.bestdoberman.com

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http://www.dobermanplace.com

http://www.dobermansource.com

http://www.dobermanstore.com

http://www.dobetalk.com

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http://www.familydoberman.com

http://www.thedobermanplace.com

http://blog.bestdoberman.com

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http://blog.dobermansource.com

http://blog.dobermanstore.com

http://blog.familydobes

http://dobermanpuppies.blogharbor.com

http://familydobes.wordpress.com/

 

 

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Stephen Parsons 
Quality Doberman Pinschers

www.familydobes.com

480-993-9797

801-636-8006

 

View Article  Exciting kennel News!!

Well first off we want to announce that we finally have puppies from Ramon Betelges here in the states! Farra Whelped a huge litter of Red puppies last night that should be more than outstanding. Many people have been waiting for a fantastic Red litter to come along, and this is it!!!

 

Also We still have four adorable black females in Holly's litter that will be ready for their new homes in just two weeks, and we had three really nice black males flown in from Betelges Kennels for the people who were looking for black males cropped and docked.

  

If you can live without caffeine or nicotine; If you can be cheerful, ignoring aches and pains; If you can resist complaining; If you can understand when loved ones are too busy to give you any time; If you can take criticism and blame without resentment; If you can ignore friends' limited educations and never correct them; If you can treat the rich and poor alike; If you can face the world without lies or deceit; If you can conquer tension without medical help; If you can relax without liquor; If you can sleep without the aid of drugs; If you can have no prejudice against creed, color, religion, gender, sexual preference, or politics .....

 

Then you have almost reached the same level of spiritual development as your dog.

 Steve Parsons

480-993-9797

http://www.familydobes.com

http://www.dobetalk.com

 

View Article  Microchips work

Today's entry is a tragedy about a dog that was dropped off at a shelter to be euthanized. The microchip was scanned and found to be one implanted by me and never registered to a later owner. Thank heavens for that! They got hold of me so we could bail him out, he has been picked up by Utah Doberman Rescue. He needs a qualified home right away, some proper nutrition and Vet care. It is such a tragedy that anyone would do this to a dog, especially one of our breeding!!! Thank heavens for Microchips or this young boy would have been murdered today, but because he was microchipped they gave me a call. How can people do this to any animal? Why did they never call me back? We do the best we can to screen potential homes, this individual turned out to be a young lady who told me she was being stalked and she needed a Doberman for protection. We talked about trained dogs vs. puppies for Personal protection. They chose to go with a Doberman puppy from one of our friends litters that was sired by a level three personal protection dog (PPD3) After about 6 months I could never get hold of them again. I am heartbroken that this has happened. Anyone interested in "Pal" contact me immediately.

 

 

Steve Parsons

480-993-9797

http://www.familydobes.com

http://www.dobetalk.com

 

View Article  practicing for the AD

Many people don't know what an AD title is, or much less why I would want to pursue them, so I thought I would give a brief tutorial. In the Sport of Schutzhund AD is the title given for Endurance. It is abbreviated from Ausdauerprüfung which means Endurance exam. In this exam the dog must travel 20 km (about 12.5 miles) in under two hours including any rest breaks. There are a few Vet checkups throughout as well to make sure the dog is doing fine. The handler normally rides a bike with the dog on the right side, but may trial two dogs at once with one on the left and one on the right. Crazy people have even been known to run the AD exam! Not me! Any dog wishing to participate in Koreung tests which are breed surveys, must have passed the AD. Training for the AD is in my opinion more rewarding than the actual title, as it gives you and your dog so much time together during training without obedience, compulsion, mistakes and frustrated nerves. It is time when I sit and talk with the dog, and encourage them to keep going, and we see a lot of country. I have been training with 4 different dogs right now to make sure I will have at least two ready for the test. I have a little different setup than most people as I will be using a recumbent Trike. This way I can pack squirt bottles to keep them cool, water and dishes for both of us, medical kit etc. It is also much more comfortable for me! So here is a picture of our gang during practice

 

Steve Parsons

480-993-9797

http://www.familydobes.com

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View Article  American vs. European Doberman

American vs. European Dobermans

 

It is time I weigh in on the debate since it is the question I get asked nearly every day in phone calls and emails. Everyone wants to know which is better American bred Dobermans or European Dobermans. By American bred I don't necessarily ,mean dogs just born in America,  I mean dogs bred to the AKC standard, or dogs in America not bred to any standard. Nice of me to lump them into that category huh? European Dobermans to me are dogs bred to the FCI or international standard or their direct descendents as long as they continue to be bred to the FCI standard. It seems funny to me that we call them European since the FCI standard is used even in central and Southern America. But the first thing is to understand that there is a difference between the two standards.

 The second thing to understand is that it doesn't make one better than another, it creates preference. It does mean that one group will be suited more to what you are after than another group. Contrary to what most people think about me, it does not mean that I don't like American Bred dogs. In fact two of the people that dislike me the most have the most amazing American bred Dobermans I have ever seen. I can appreciate their beauty and their closeness to their standard, the same way I can appreciate the beauty and grace of Arabian horses while still preferring Quarter horses. I like to train Quarter horses, I like to ride them, rope off them, cut with them, I like to be with them. It is the same with Doberman Pinschers. The Arabian horse wins most every endurance event, that is what they were created for. They are graceful, efficient and correct in their movement, but a quarter horse is like the American muscle car, it is just raw power waiting to explode. So is this about Cars, or horses or Doberman Pinschers? It is about Doberman Pinschers of course!

The point I am trying to make is that the American Doberman was bred by fanciers and breeders to evolve into a different type of dog in type, structure and temperament than the original Doberman from Apolda Germany was. What most people fail to understand is that the "European Doberman" or those bred to the FCI standard also evolved to a different form than the original Herr Doberman dog. Today's European type Doberman Pinscher is larger and more heavily boned than it's ancestors. It's temperament is still adequate for "Work" (by this we mean dog sports, personal protection, Police work, Search and rescue, etc.) but it is considerably less "sharp" than its predecessor. I don't think I would have liked the original Doberman Pinscher very much, they were small compact muscle bound dogs with very sharp temperaments, fiercely loyal to their owners but wary of anyone else. Many judges and handlers were bit at shows and otherwise by these "Devil dogs" as they came to be known by the US military when they were pressed into service with the Marine corps. They provided a more than valuable service to our country and our soldiers, and they were perfectly suited for their job. They saved lives, they protected lives, but they were loyal to their handlers alone for the most part. The European Doberman Pinscher of today is still very protective and loyal, but much less suspicious. The American bred Doberman on the other hand as a generalization (naturally there are exceptions) has had the working temperament bred out of them, as a "job" was not part of their standard. In Germany the dogs were not allowed to be bred unless the dog met the breed standard of conformation, passed hip examinations, passed a temperament test, and at least one parent had to have a working title such as a schutzhund title.

 This is why the working traits have been preserved. Now there is also indiscriminant breeding going on over in Europe and elsewhere but the dog remains fundamentally different. In America I see two basic groups of Dobermans evolving in the last 100 years. The first group is the result of the Dobermans incredible popularity in the early 70's when they were literally mass produced. The AKC did not have any breeding regulations, nor does it today with regards to health, temperament or structure. They have a standard that constantly gets revised but it is voluntary to adhere to. This first group of people are the group I call backyard breeders. Not because the dogs are actually bred in the back yard as I like to joust with so many people that pass out that label, but because they don't have a clear goal and standard in mind in their breeding program. Their motive is only to produce puppies. These are different than the group I label as puppy millers. Puppy mills to me are people who on a large scale produce puppies with only a profit motive, no standard to breed to or clear program goals, and most importantly the condition the dogs and puppies are kept in. This one point gets me in more arguments than any other. But between the Back yard Breeders (often abbreviated byb's) and the puppy millers often abbreviated (pm's)  they ruined what the Doberman was as well as what it became. They produced dogs that now range from 45 pounds on up to over 120 I hear people boast from time to time, and there is not a set of traits that really identifies them as a group other than their coloring and the fact that they are registered as Doberman Pinschers. There is too much variability in the group and fails the fundamental definition of a breed which is that "parents produce like offspring." There is now so much variability in structure, temperament, marking and even color that I would not call the offspring "Like" meaning the same as the parents. There was another group in America that was breeding dogs with a goal in mind, they are the show people. They were breeding dogs for the conformation ring. Now I will say something here that likely will offend many people, but it doesn't make it any less true. The goal was the structure alone of the dog, temperament was not fussed about, nor were health traits. I know there have been some big changes in the last few years with very good health testing, but one of the most talked about and bred to studs not long ago also had a history of very bad temperament, but he was gorgeous so they kept breeding him. One of my favorite kennels despite their lack of appreciation for me :) had wobblers in their lines and now the whole line has been retired in favor of healthier lines now that health testing and genealogy has become more important.

The American Doberman Pinscher is a beautiful dog and I can appreciate their elegance and grace. In my opinion they lack the structure and power to do their original job. The Doberman Pinscher was the only breed of dog ever bred specifically for personal protection. There are many breeds that do this job well, but they were bred as multi-purpose dogs. The Doberman was created by Herr Doberman specifically to be a companion and guard to it's owner. I have not met any American Champion Dobermans that could adequately perform this job and if someone has one please bring it over and shut me up as I put on the bite suit. This to me is why I prefer the European Bred Doberman Pinscher. They still can do the original job they were bred for. I love the story of how the Doberman came to our nations aid in time of war not many years ago, but if the same call came out today for Doberman Pinschers to be war dogs, the ones America could send would be predominantly European dogs. The AKC champions would fail us, the Back yard Bred dogs would fail us, and the puppy mill dogs would fail us. I now understand very clearly what it takes for a dog to actually do this kind of work, and so much of it is bred in to them.

Let's be specific about some generalizations in the breed standard. American bred Doberman Pinschers are typically smaller over all, they are shorter at the withers and lighter than the European Doberman. They are also finer boned. Those physical traits make them less suited for working dog sports that I enjoy. If they were slightly smaller and still had adequate bone they may make better ring-sport dogs than the standard European Doberman. Very few Dobermans do well in French ring primarily because of the palisade wall they must scale and jump off. The typical Doberman is too heavy to jump 7 to 9 feet with all his weight on his front end and not sustain injury. The American bred Doberman lacks the drive and temperament and is too fine boned also for this task.

Although health testing occurs with most reputable American Doberman Breeders now, it wasn't always the case and in my opinion we see higher frequency of many maladies, and some others that typically do not show up in the European dog.

So which dog is better American or European? You can see now it comes down to what you want the dog for. They both can make great family pets, which is what the majority of people getting Doberman puppies are interested in. Generally the European Type Doberman Pinscher is going to be better suited for working dog sports, but an American bred dog can still do great with obedience, agility, flyball etc. Some even track well despite their lack of selection for it. I did Search and Rescue with American bred Doberman Pinschers, one was a grandson of my favorite show kennel. But doing SAR with my European Dobermans has been much more rewarding and easier to train. I used to pheasant hunt with my American bred Doberman Pinschers back in 1998 but I have no doubt whatsoever that Ruby and Athena today would hunt faster with more desire, drive and stamina. But I never did have a good protection dog from American lines. I had some that learned the job, but none were as powerful or as driven for the work, and if I found dogs that were, they were not as stable in my house with children.

Both the American bred Doberman and the European Doberman are good dogs for their intended purposes, it really does come down to preference. You even have some people crossing the two which although not my goal, since the gene pool is very shallow anyway, it may save the genetic health of the breed in the long run.

Naturally my preference is and remains the European Doberman Pinscher because of the jobs I do with them. I prefer the health, temperament, size, structure and working ability of a European Doberman that is why I have them, and that is why I breed them to share with other people.

 

 

Steve Parsons

480-993-9797

http://www.familydobes.com

http://www.dobetalk.com

 

View Article  Time for change

Life comes with many seasons and we have to learn to enjoy each one, I think that is the real secret to happiness. Here at the kennel we have had seasons of mourning and seasons of joy. Right now we are raising Holly's Doberman puppies and have a few females still available for sale. There is a video for your enjoyment here: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CZB3_NOeZHQ  We are also very excited about the coming of Fara's litter, this is the second time we have tried to breed to Ramon Betelges to get some of his offspring here in the states. We are happy to announce that Farra is due to whelp February 22nd. These will be some of the finest Champion Red Doberman puppies anywhere in the world. Ramon is a dog I continue to believe will win the IDC. He has won several big and important shows already this year, placing ahead of the winner of the IDC last year. We are very fortunate to have his Champion bred European Doberman puppies coming. So it is a season of new life in contrast to the devastating losses we have had this past few months.

 

It is a great season for training here in Scottsdale with weather warming up to the 80's nearly every day, days of cold Utah winters are long forgotten, but I still remember That July and August are coming!

Steve Parsons

480-993-9797

http://www.familydobes.com

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View Article  Busy at the kennel

You know this time of year I am forgetting how most of the states are experiencing winter while it warms up to 80 here :) Although I am enjoying it I am sure I will complain June through August again, perhaps spend more time back in Utah or over in Denver with all of our good friends there. Because of the weather here, I never sent out my winter warnings like I usually do, things like icemelt burning feet, tips of cropped ears being frostbit if overexposed etc. There are some old posts on my old blogs so I will resurrect one :) This was from last winter:

As I got back from this mornings run and the kids all had icicles hanging from their faces it occurred to me to talk about cold weather and dobes. I know many of you are living in warm Florida and California and the rest of us are jealous! But here it was 0 Degrees Fahrenheit this morning and we went for our morning 3 miles. Naturally I have to dress warm or my bald head freezes, but what about the dogs? Dobes still enjoy a good romp in the snow from time to time, you just need to pay attention to a few things. Because their feet are warm, it melts the snow and then it re-freezes and balls up in their feet. At best it causes discomfort, at worst it can cause frostbite with prolonged exposure. One quick and easy fix is to rub some Vaseline in between their toes and pads before you go out to play. It’s great on the carpet when they come back in too! Just kidding, be sure you wipe it back off before coming inside. Dobes can be out a short time without coats etc. providing they stay dry. A wet dog is a frozen dog. If you will be out a little while, or if conditions will be wet, I really like the orange neoprene vests Cabela’s sells. Also how much movement the dog is allowed affects their warmth.  If they are walking slowly on a leash, they may not generate enough body heat to be in the cold unprotected, when they are running free alongside the four wheeler for 2-3 miles, they stay warm enough so long as they are dry. Then it is quickly home to the heated tile of the sunroom to dry off and lounge around.

 

Also cropped ears not only are more exposed to the cold because they are erect, the bloodflow has been changed by removing part of the ear, so you need to frequently massage the ears when you are out in the cold, you will feel how much colder the tips are and you need to be cautious they frostbite very quickly. There are some "muffs" made by various crafty people out there custom for your dog, and they do work and are a great idea as they hold in a little heat and protect the ears from the wind. They do look silly though :) Send us some pictures if you have them!!

 

Here in sunny AZ we have our own risks too though, the nights are still cold and the days warm up which can really stress the dogs as they bounce back and forth between extremes. We try to mitigate this by keeping them warm while it's cold and then work with them once it has already warmed up. I must say it is enjoyable!! Remind me of that when July comes okay?

 

On another note we have a litter announcement, most people love to hear when Zenny has puppies as he seems to be the all time favorite of everyone who meets the dogs. He was bred to Hassia Betelges who is owned by the legendary Betelges kennels and Holly just whelped 11 healthy black puppies. There are four females available if anyone has been waiting.

 

We also imported a few male puppies from Betelges kennels to satisfy everyone who hoped for a male from Holly, and we also brought in a 9 month old male that is cropped and ready to go. If you are interested in any of these dogs, please feel free to drop us a line!

 

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View Article  Just Dogs :)

We have some special offerings right now of great young adult dogs looking for forever homes Please check out the website to find out more about Jinx, Lexi, Anika, And “Dobie”

 

Went and saw Marley and Me last night with my oldest son who has been begging me. I had read the book so I was really dragging my feet. I loved the book mind you, and the movie was well done we just love Owen Wilson, but it was very hard after having lost Zenka and Oxa just a month ago. So when someone shared this “Just a dog” thought with me, I felt I needed to pass it on as well, since “Just dogs” have contributed to who and what I am. They give me purpose and determination, but they teach me about love. They love me unconditionally, even if I am unlovable. “Just dogs” know more about being a good person than I do, and I have been so blessed to spend my life with them. So here is to all the “Just dogs” that I have shared my life with. Wish I could write something as powerful as this.

 

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From time to time, people tell me, "lighten up, it's just a dog,"
or, "that's a lot of money for just a dog."

They don't understand the distance traveled, the time spent, or the costs involved for "just a dog."

Some of my proudest moments have come about with "just a dog."

Many hours have passed and my only company was "just a dog,"
but I did not once feel slighted.

Some of my saddest moments have been brought about by "just a dog,"
and in those days of darkness, the gentle touch of "just a dog" gave me comfort and reason to overcome the day.

If you, too, think it's "just a dog," then you will probably understand
phrases like "just a friend," "just a sunrise," or "just a promise."

"Just a dog" brings into my life the very essence of friendship, trust,
and pure unbridled joy.

"Just a dog" brings out the compassion and patience that make me a better person.

Because of "just a dog", I will rise early, take long walks and look longingly to the future.

So for me and folks like me, it's not "just a dog" but an embodiment of all the hopes and dreams of the future,
the fond memories of the past, and the pure joy of the moment.

"Just a dog" brings out what's good in me and diverts my thoughts away
from myself and the worries of the day.

I hope that someday they can understand that it's not "just a dog",
but the thing that gives me humanity and keeps me from being
"just a man or woman."

So the next time you hear the phrase "just a dog"
just smile...
because they "just don't understand."

by Richard Biby

 

 

 

 

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View Article  Merry CHRISTmas

Of course I have already sent out my CHRISTmas message but I wanted to share this video clip with all of you even though it doesn’t have any Dobermans, it is still very classy and I hope you all enjoy it. I hope it is a very Merry CHRISTmas for all of you, and I hope the new year brings joy and prosperity in such troubled times. I hope we all cling to hope and make a positive difference to all of those around us. Enjoy this video and share it with others, there just isn’t enough good clean entertainment these days J

 

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View Article  Holiday Safety

Normally I put together my own holiday warnings, they can be found on my old blogs, but the AKC put this out this year encouraging people to sign up for their health plans and talking about cases they have covered. Truth is it is a good thing to enroll in Pet insurance, and their plans are not bad. Anyway, here is a link to some of their Holiday warnings.

 

Some Of Your Favorite Things Can Harm Your Pet!

The problems with holiday ornaments may be obvious to many people; however there are many other items around our homes that may not be so clearly a threat to our pets.  It might be a good idea to remind yourself and your children about the dangers of items in the list below. For example, many don’t realize that chocolate is toxic to dogs and can seriously harm them, perhaps fatally. Take time to review your home, garage and yard to see if your pets are at risk, so you can take steps to keep dangerous items out of their way.

Take Steps to Protect Your Pets From These Holiday Hazards 

 

  • Candles and hot wax
  • Candies, chocolate and foil wrappers
  • Alcoholic beverages
  • Electrical cords (uncovered or untaped)
  • Ribbons and strings
  • Metal ornament hooks
  • Fireplace flames and color salts
  • Tree tinsel and confetti
  • Carving and kitchen knives/blades
  • Outdoor fireworks and other loud noises
  • Rich, fatty foods and table scraps

 

  • Stagnant tree stand water and chemicals
  • Intricate or fragile ornaments
  • Rock salt and antifreeze
  • Poultry bones and meat drippings
  • Small holiday lights
  • Angel hair (spun glass)
  • Poinsettias, holly, mistletoe and greens
  • Rich food stocks and seasonings
  • Artificial snow and snow flock
  • Toys, especially those with small parts
  • Slippery outdoor ice and snow

What To Do If Your Pet Has Contact with a Hazardous Item

In the event of your pet coming into contact with or swallowing any of these items listed, make certain you get in touch with a veterinarian or animal hospital immediately.  It is a good idea to keep the phone numbers of both your usual veterinarian and an emergency clinic on hand. Where appropriate, if you can safely take a sample (or description) of the item to the clinic, this may help the diagnosis.

A veterinarian or hospital will decide what to do to diagnose the problem and the best course of treatment.  With technologies such as CT Scans and MRIs, veterinarians today have many tools to use to assess how to treat your sick pet. However diagnostic testing can be expensive, with CT Scans often running at $1,000 or more, and then there could be the need to run blood work and other tests, and possibly surgery, for a case of ‘foreign body ingestion.’  In addition, a wide range of prescription medications is now available to treat sick pets successfully. The wonderful advances in veterinarian care mean that decisions about what health care is affordable can weigh heavily on many pet owners, when faced with the stress of their beloved pet’s medical emergency.

 

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View Article  Tribute

Today is a very hard day for us at Family Dobes as we mourn the loss of some of our dearest friends. Today Zenka lost a short but severe battle with Lymphoma and was finally released from suffering, and we believe now again able to run and play and chase cats the way she always did. She was one of the dearest friends I have ever had in this life, and as I reflect back, she was the perfect Doberman for me. There is not a thing about her I would have changed, I admired her courage and sensitivity, her fighting spirit and her persistence in getting my attention. Whatever I asked her for she gave me and then more. She rekindled my passion for dog sport, and taught so many others about the sport. She was happy to bite a sleeve on anyone much to many peoples enjoyment over the years. I never will get over losing her, she was everything I hoped her to be, she carved a mark on the hearts of my whole family, and all of those who knew her at all. She was an amazing girl, and passed far too young, I would have liked to hang on to her forever.

To add to the pain of it all, Oxa Devil Garden who we have had only a short time, also passed today with a very aggressive and advanced Sarcoma. She had such a willingness to work and such eagerness in her play, although she was with us only a short time, she too is greatly missed and can not be forgotten. She too made friends out of those who knew her well, and we count today one of the darkest in our kennels history.

We had never produced any pups from these girls or these lines, so thankfully we do not have to go through this at a future date with their offspring.

But as you all take time to reflect on this season and this short email, realize how many things we have to be grateful for. Zenka filled and enriched my life beyond my imagination, she holds my heart still this very moment while she awaits across what many call the “Rainbow Bridge” I wouldn’t erase my memories of her even if it meant the pain would end for me now, I am so grateful to have spent the time with her that I did. I find it sad and poignant that the woman who had her before me and showed her to her championship also passed this April of Cancer. I am sure they missed each other as much as I now miss Zenka. If you have some Great four  legged teachers around you, hug them all extra tight for just a little longer today than you normally would. Be grateful for the moments and memories you have, and don’t give them up for anything. Treasure even the mischief that may now drive you crazy, read the book or see the movie “Marley and me” Go for a walk and throw a ball, and focus on making some extra good memories. Don’t let the sun go down on regret, I wish I had done more with these girls than I did, had I known how short the time would be I am sure I would have, so why don’t we all project that forward to the ones still with us. God Bless all of you, and may you all have a Merry CHRISTmas despite all of the troubled economy and suffering that is upon so many of us and our loved ones. Find peace and happiness in a cold wet nose with a warm heart that can teach us far more about unconditional love than any other source. They trust, they give, they accept us just as we are even though we could all be so much more. They see only the best in us setting the example for how we should look at our world and those in it. I want to thank Dr Hoban at friends Animal Hospital especially for true compassion, and expert care, she worried for us every day and continued to check in on us. Grayhawk animal Hospital and Sonoran Animal Hospital also treated Zenka as her own in the early stages of her suffering. She was very loved right to the end and will be forever. I want to thank all of you for being a part of my life and sharing the good times as well as the hard ones with me

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View Article  Thanksgiving

This weeks newsletter is going to be a sappy one, but at the end it will still have good Doberman Holiday tips so if you want to skip the sappy stuff I won’t be offended J

 

You know I am sitting here reflecting on how awful it is that I need a special holiday to express my gratitude once a year, when I know I should do it every day. Truly we have so much to be grateful for that we often just take for granted. This entitlement mindset that plagues society today gets us off the mark by a long ways. It has been a very trying year for us at FamilyDobes as I am sure it has been for some of you. Some of you have shared your stories and heartbreaks with us, and likewise we have shared with many of you. It was another year filled with adversity of every kind and it leaves one sitting in a very low and humble position where it is easy to see the things that we should be grateful for. In some ways I guess that makes me grateful even for this perspective that comes from being knocked down. I have seen this year true friendship extended to me from so many people I counted on, and even some I had no idea would stand up beside me when I needed it. I am grateful for the wonderful people I meet through raising these wonderful dogs, I am grateful for the stories we hear back from all of you, and how they change your lives as well. Some of these great dogs have even gone as far as to save lives in several different ways. I am grateful that they did their jobs. I truly am grateful to share my life with these great dogs who teach me more about unconditional love and friendship every day than I would have ever thought possible. I am grateful for the many great people who work with me in training and other capacities who make all of this possible. Grateful to those of you who push me to try harder and reach higher and hold on just a little bit longer. I am grateful for the opportunity to do what I am passionate about and to share that passion with so many of you. There are hard times ahead for all of us, we are all going to need that unconditional love and companionship that these magnificent dogs bring, and perhaps we can survive the coming storms. We hope you are all going to have a very happy Thanksgiving and hoping you can see all that you have to be thankful for.

 

So on to the Holiday tips. It seems like a no brainer, but some people may not know how dangerous a Turkey carcass can be to our dogs. Some of you may even have TOFURKEY around which I think is just dangerous anyway J But even if you know the turkey bones are bad for our dogs, you may not know just how sneaky they can be about getting to it. I recommend you pull the meat and get the bones in a secure trash can right away. Don’t take a chance even for  a minute. Raw feeders often feed chicken/turkey backs and necks to dogs, but it is different when it is truly raw and not cooked. The heat makes poultry bones brittle and that is what causes the problems. Also with Turkey meat there is the risk of Botulism. I have never died from it, and I have always been one of those that cooks the bird and leaves it out all day to pick off of. But safe food handling techniques tell us to take it from the heat source, serve it and straight to the fridge to avoid botulism. Also as always there are goodies around during the Holidays, watch out for candy, and candy wrappers. Remember sugar substitutes can be poisonous to dogs, We have a list on our blogs and forums of the toxic things we know about. If you are have questions, the Animal Poison Control number is 800-213-6680 and www.petpoisonhelpline.com If you are a home again microchip owner your call may even be free. Also a lot of strange people come around during the Holidays and that can cause problems with dogs in all stages. Add holiday festivities and people get even stranger still. It is safest to give your Dog a room off limits to the proceedings where they can be safe and undisturbed. Remember many of you are coming into cold weather, ours is finally tolerable so I forget to warn people about exposure times, frostbite etc, but it is the time of year to be thinking about that in most places. Here we can finally stay out all day and enjoy it! So some basic winter tips are Dry pets stay warmer, cropped ears get cold faster because of less circulation and are prone to frostbite, they have special ear warmers that work nicely although they look silly J Also I like the neoprene vests from Cabellas for keeping the dogs warm in the snow. I never found a good pair of Dog boots I liked, just don’t stay out in the cold that long J Also try petsafe Ice melt, or move to a warmer climate LOL!

 

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View Article  Happy Halloween!

Well it wasn’t feeling much like fall to me since it still gets in the 90’s down here, but our FamilyDobes Reunion sponsored by Lisa and Habib Nasrullah in Denver finally did the trick for me. We enjoyed great weather with sleet, hail, cold, wind, rain, even some sunshine to mix it up. Everyone was feeling terrible about the weather and it is one of the things I enjoyed most of all! We had a great time getting together with our Denver area dogs some now fully grown, and others starting out. We worked on some Search and Rescue theory and training, some Schutzhund training and some problem solving. I hope everyone who came had as great a time as I did, I only wish it could have lasted longer. I did try to buy back four of the boys J I can’t believe how much Zenny’s traits come through in his offspring. But a great time was had by all. We will be getting some pictures to share a bit later, but what a great time it was! We decided we will make it an annual event! We hope to be able to have more of them in other area as well. We are thinking Anaheim area in the near future too so the kids can enjoy Disneyland one more time J

 

I will be in Tampa Florida for just a few days in the first part of November if anyone down that way can get together!

 

I also have to make a trip down to LA area again the first part of next week if anyone wants to meet up.

 

Well we wanted to take a moment and wish everyone a happy Halloween filled with my usual cautions… Candy can be harmful to your dogs, as can the wrappers etc. Many people do mean things on Halloween, keep your pets close. Remember if you dress your Dog up for Halloween you have to share a picture, but keep in mind the dog may hold it against you J Glow sticks and other things of that nature can also be toxic, but pumpkin seeds are a great natural dewormer so don’t worry about them J Perhaps we should have a Doberman Pumpkin contest with all of the group? Anyone interested submit your entry by email and we will put them up on the website to be voted on.

 

Also Daniel in PA has some great video of his Texa X Uragan pup “Ike” eating a motion sensor witch J Watch for it on youtube! Videos like that are fun to share so make some!

 

 

 Steve Parsons

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View Article  Training goals

Many people are not interested in Schutzhund style training, but I found this article very useful as most people have a misshapen idea of what a good Schutzhund dog looks like. Whether you do shutzhund sport or any other dog sport I think this applies very well. It is also the “overall picture” I expect to see from any working dog whether it is pet therapy, service work, military or sport. Even if you are just walking your dog at the park, let us try to create these kinds of dogs in our training programs.

2008 WUSV Judge's Meeting

September 24, 2008

USA Director of Judges, Mark Przybylski, attended the 2008 WUSV Judge's Meeting in Darmstadt, Germany. There were 59 Judges there from 30 different countries. The emphasis on the meeting was strongly geared to rules applications, evaluation of exercises, and point assessment based on quality of work, training, and behaviors. This meeting emphasized proper judging in accordance with the current rules.

The dog's temperament must be tested throughout. It starts at the beginning. It is strongly recommended that we use many of the adjective descriptors available to us to note what the animal demonstrates from the onset. This will help place the dog in the appropriate category and rating. In order for the dog to receive an excellent rating he must demonstrate the following;
Must be happy
Must be free Must be correct in all parts of an exercise
Must be well trained
Must show harmony between dog and handler
Must show drive (temperament and character)
Must show balance in drives

 I think this picture shows a happy free and correct dog:

 

 

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View Article  This will make you cry

Something About Harry Old Dogs are the Best Dogs

By Gene Weingarten
Sunday, October 5, 2008; W16

Not long before his death, Harry and I headed out for a walk that proved eventful. He was nearly 13, old for a big dog. Walks were no longer the slap-happy Iditarods of his youth, frenzies of purposeless pulling in which we would cast madly off in all directions, fighting for command. Nor were they the exuberant archaeological expeditions of his middle years, when every other tree or hydrant or blade of grass held tantalizing secrets about his neighbors. In his old age, Harry had transformed his walk into a simple process of elimination -- a dutiful, utilitarian, head-down trudge. When finished, he would shuffle home to his ratty old bed, which graced our living room because Harry could no longer ascend the stairs. On these walks, Harry seemed oblivious to his surroundings, absorbed in the arduous responsibility of placing foot before foot before foot before foot. But this time, on the edge of a small urban park, he stopped to watch something. A man was throwing a Frisbee to his dog. The dog, about Harry's size, was tracking the flight expertly, as Harry had once done, anticipating hooks and slices by watching the pitch and roll and yaw of the disc, as Harry had done, then catching it with a joyful, punctuating leap, as Harry had once done, too.

Harry sat. For 10 minutes, he watched the fling and catch, fling and catch, his face contented, his eyes alight, his tail a-twitch. Our walk home was almost jaunty.

Some years ago, the Style section invited readers to come up with a midlife list of goals for an underachiever. The first-runner-up prize went to:

"Win the admiration of my dog."

It's no big deal to love a dog; they make it so easy for you. They find you brilliant, even if you are a witling. You fascinate them, even if you are as dull as a butter knife. They are fond of you, even if you are a genocidal maniac. Hitler loved his dogs, and they loved him.

Puppies are incomparably cute and incomparably entertaining, and, best of all, they smell exactly like puppies. At middle age, a dog has settled into the knuckleheaded matrix of behavior we find so appealing -- his unquestioning loyalty, his irrepressible willingness to please, his infectious happiness. His unequivocal love. But it is not until a dog gets old that his most important virtues ripen and coalesce. Old dogs can be cloudy-eyed and grouchy, gray of muzzle, graceless of gait, odd of habit, hard of hearing, pimply, wheezy, lazy and lumpy. But to anyone who has ever known an old dog, these flaws are of little consequence. Old dogs are vulnerable. They show exorbitant gratitude and limitless trust. They are without artifice. They are funny in new and unexpected ways. But, above all, they seem at peace.

Kafka wrote that the meaning of life is that it ends. He meant that our lives are shaped and shaded by the existential terror of knowing that all is finite. This anxiety informs poetry, literature, the monuments we build, the wars we wage, the ways we love and hate and procreate -- all of it. Kafka was talking, of course, about people. Among animals, only humans are said to be self-aware enough to comprehend the passage of time and the grim truth of mortality. How then, to explain old Harry at the edge of that park, gray and lame, just days from the end, experiencing what can only be called wistfulness and nostalgia? I have lived with eight dogs, watched six of them grow old and infirm with grace and dignity, and die with what seemed to be acceptance. I have seen old dogs grieve at the loss of their friends. I have come to believe that as they age, dogs comprehend the passage of time, and, if not the inevitability of death, certainly the relentlessness of the onset of their frailties. They understand that what's gone is gone.

What dogs do not have is an abstract sense of fear, or a feeling of injustice or entitlement. They do not see themselves, as we do, as tragic heroes, battling ceaselessly against the merciless onslaught of time. Unlike us, old dogs lack the audacity to mythologize their lives. You've got to love them for that.

At the pet store, we chose Harry over two other puppies because, when wrestling with my children in the get-acquainted enclosure, Harry drew the most blood. We wanted a feisty pup, and we got one.

It is instructive to watch what happens in a tug of war between a child and a young dog who is equally pigheaded, but stronger. Neither gives an inch, which means that, over dozens of days, the child is dragged hundreds of feet on his behind.

The product of a Kansas puppy mill, son of a bitch named Taffy Sioux, Harry had been sold to us as a yellow Labrador retriever. I suppose it was technically true, but only in the sense that Tic Tacs are technically "food." Harry's lineage was suspect. He wasn't the square-headed, shiny, elegant type of Labrador you can envision in the wilds of Canada hunting for ducks. He was the shape of a baked potato, with the color and luster of an interoffice envelope. You could envision him in the wilds of suburban Toledo, hunting for nuggets of dried food in a carpet.

His full name was Harry S Truman, and once he'd reached middle age, he had indeed developed the unassuming soul of a haberdasher. We sometimes called him Tru, which fit his loyalty but was in other ways a misnomer: Harry was a bit of an eccentric, a few bubbles off plumb. Though he had never experienced an electrical shock, whenever he encountered a wire on the floor -- say, a power cord leading from a laptop to a wall socket -- Harry would stop and refuse to proceed. To him, this barrier was as impassable as the Himalayas. He'd stand there, waiting for someone to move it. Also, he was afraid of wind.

While Harry lacked the wiliness and cunning of some dogs, I did watch one day as he figured out a basic principle of physics. He was playing with a water bottle in our back yard -- it was one of those five-gallon cylindrical plastic jugs from the top of a water cooler. At one point, it rolled down a hill, which surprised and delighted him. He retrieved it, brought it back up and tried to make it go down again. It wouldn't. I watched him nudge it around until he discovered that for the bottle to roll, its long axis had to be perpendicular to the slope of the hill. You could see the understanding dawn on his face; it was Archimedes in his bath, Helen Keller at the water spigot.

That was probably the intellectual achievement of Harry's life, tarnished only slightly by the fact that he spent the next two hours insipidly entranced, rolling the bottle down and hauling it back up. He did not come inside until it grew too dark for him to see.

I believe I know exactly when Harry became an old dog. He was about 9 years old. It happened at 10:15 on the evening of June 21, 2001, the day my family moved from the suburbs to the city. The move took longer than we'd anticipated. Inexcusably, Harry had been left alone in the vacated house -- eerie, echoing, empty of furniture and of all belongings except Harry and his bed-- for eight hours. When I arrived to pick him up, he was beyond frantic.

He met me at the door and embraced me around the waist in a way that is not immediately reconcilable with the musculature and skeleton of a dog's front legs. I could not extricate myself from his grasp. We walked out of that house like a slow-dancing couple, and Harry did not let go until I opened the car door.

He wasn't barking at me in reprimand, as he once might have done. He hadn't fouled the house in spite. That night, Harry was simply scared and vulnerable, impossibly sweet and needy and grateful. He had lost something of himself, but he had gained something more touching and more valuable. He had entered old age.

Some people who seem unmoved by the deaths of tens of thousands through war or natural disaster will nonetheless summon outrage over the mistreatment of animals, and they will grieve inconsolably over the loss of the family dog. People who find this behavior distasteful are often the ones without pets. It is hard to understand, in the abstract, the degree to which a companion animal, particularly after a long life, becomes a part of you. I believe I've figured out what this is all about. It is not as noble as I'd like it to be, but it is not anything of which to be ashamed, either.

In our dogs, we see ourselves. Dogs exhibit almost all of our emotions; if you think a dog cannot register envy or pity or pride or melancholia, you have never lived with one for any length of time. What dogs lack is our ability to dissimulate. They wear their emotions nakedly, and so, in watching them, we see ourselves as we would be if we were stripped of posture and pretense. Their innocence is enormously appealing. When we watch a dog progress from puppyhood to old age, we are watching our own lives in microcosm. Our dogs become old, frail, crotchety and vulnerable, just as Grandma did, just as we surely will, come the day. When we grieve for them, we grieve for ourselves.

The meaning of life is that it ends.

In the year after our move, Harry began to age visibly, and he did it the way most dogs do. First his muzzle began to whiten, and then the white slowly crept backward to swallow his entire head. Pink nose, white head, tan flanks -- he looked like a stubby kitchen match. As he became more sedentary, he thickened a bit, too.

I remember reading an article once about people who raised dogs for food in Asia. A dog rancher was indignantly defending his profession, saying that he used only "basic yellow dogs." As I looked down at Harry, asleep as usual, all I could think of was: meat.

But Harry's physical decline was accompanied by what I will call, at the risk of ridicule, a spiritual awakening. A dog's greatest intelligence is said to be his innate ability to anticipate and comprehend human feelings and actions. It's supposedly a Darwinian adaptation -- dogs need our alliance in order to survive. In earlier years, Harry had never shown any particular gift for empathy, but as the breadth of his interests dwindled, and his world contracted, he seemed to watch us more closely. My wife, who is a lawyer, also acts in community theater. One day, she was in the house rehearsing a monologue for an upcoming audition. The lines were from Marsha Norman's two-person play "'Night, Mother," about a housewife who is attempting to talk her adult daughter out of suicide.

Thelma is a weak and bewildered woman trying to change her daughter's mind while coming to terms with her own failings as a mother and with her paralyzing fear of being left alone. Her lines are excruciating.

My wife had to stop in mid-monologue. Harry was too distraught. He could understand not one word she was saying, but he figured out that Mom was as sad as he'd ever seen her. He was whimpering, pawing at her knee, licking her hand, trying as best he could to make things better. You don't need a brain to have a heart.

Harry was always terrified of thunderstorms, but as he aged and his hearing waned, as if in a benign collusion of natural forces, this terror subsided. He became a calmer dog in general, if a far more eccentric one.

On walks, he would no longer bother to scout and circle for a place to relieve himself. He would simply do it in mid-plod, like a horse, leaving the difficult logistics of drive-by cleanup to me. Sometimes, while crossing a busy street, with cars whizzing by, he would plop down to scratch his ear. Sometimes, he would forget where he was and why he was there. To the amusement of passersby, I would have to hunker down beside him and say, "Harry, we're on a walk, and we're going home now. Home is this way, okay?" On these dutiful walks, Harry ignored almost everything he passed. The most notable exception was an old, barrel-chested female pit bull named Honey, whom he loved. This was surprising, both because other dogs had long ago ceased to interest Harry at all, and because even back when they did, Harry's tastes were for the guys. Though he was neutered, Harry's sexual preference was pretty evident.

But when we met Honey on walks, Harry perked up. Honey was younger by five years and heartier by a mile, but she liked Harry and slowed her gait when he was around. They waddled together for blocks, eyes forward, hardly interacting but content in each other's company. Harry reminded me of an old gay man who, at the end of his life, returns to his wife to end their time together on a porch swing under an embroidered lap shawl. I will forever be grateful to Honey for sweetening Harry's last days.

I work mostly at home, which means that during the weekdays Harry and I shared an otherwise empty house. Mostly, he slept; mostly I wrote and paced, and my pacing often took me past his lump on the floor. I would always mutter, almost unconsciously, "Hey, Harry," and he would always respond in the same fashion: His body would move not at all, but his tail would thud, exactly once, against the floor.

I didn't really know how important that ritual was until there was no thud anymore.

One night at 3 a.m., a smoke detector in our house began to bleep in that water-torture way, signaling that it needed a new battery. It was mildly annoying, but to Harry it appeared to be a sign of the Apocalypse. He began pacing and panting, and actually tried climbing our stairwell to hide under our bed. His rheumy legs buckled; we caught him before he fell.

So I mounted a ladder, disconnected the bleeping thing, and took out the spent battery. Then my wife spent two hours talking Harry down into a semi-sane condition. She slept on the floor by his side.

It turned out to be Harry's final eccentricity. When he awoke the next morning, he could no longer use his hind legs, and we trundled him off to the vet. Harry had timed his departure thoughtfully. Had he waited a few more hours, my daughter would have been unable to hug him and tell him what a good boy he had been. She had known and loved Harry more than half of her life, and I believe this was not incidental to her choice of career. She was leaving, that next morning, for her first day of veterinary school.

For nearly a week after Harry's death, my wife and I shared a knowledge that we left unspoken, even to each other. It was simply too heart-wrenching to say out loud.

As he lay on the gurney and the doctor began to push the poison into his vein, Harry had lifted up his head and kissed us goodbye.

Gene Weingarten is a staff writer for the Magazine. He can be reached at weingarten@washpost.com. This article was excerpted from "Old Dogs" by Gene Weingarten. Photographs by Michael S. Williamson. Copyright © 2008 by Gene Weingarten and Michael S. Williamson. Reprinted by permission of Simon & Schuster Inc.

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Hi Steve,

This is Melissa ********  Thanks for all the great emails you send out.  They are great.  Speaking of training...  I was wondering what you might recommend as far as a few training issues that I have been having.  I have sent them for training and have also had someone come to the house.  If their is anyway you can give me a few helpful hints, it would be a big help:


Thanks for asking! I wish you could come spend a couple of hours with me, we could fix most of this very quickly.


Walking on a leash - they still pull a lot. Never play tug-o-war, give fast jerky corrections. They are not supposed to hurt, they are supposed to capture attention so you can redirect them. I am not a fan of pinch or prong collars, I don’t use choke chains, just a flat collar with sharp tugs.
The girl just loves to jump up on the back door when she is ready to come in. This also takes correction with a leash or remote collar as it happens, but you can teach the dog to sit at the door before it opens and that will also eliminate the behavior.
Digging That’s the hardest one, usually giving them other things to do works, not giving them unsupervised time outside etc. One thing that helps is fill up the holes with their dog waste and they avoid that spot in the future, sometimes though this just moves the hole they are digging. If it is always the same spot such as digging under a gate, you can lay some chicken wire down then cover it with a few inches of dirt. This hurts their pads when they dig and makes a physical barrier
Also, when they know they have done something wrong, they won't come. Always, the golden rule is never punish a dog that came to you, it teaches them not to come to you. If they have done something wrong it is up to you to go catch them. Also if you didn’t catch them doing it, their attention span can’t relate to why they are being corrected, but never ever correct a dog that came to you, always praise them “Good Here!” or “Good come!” then they will always have a strong here command.
They also still love to fight, but sometimes it gets a little to rough.  How can I stop them? By being a very strong and dominant pack leader, don’t allow it at all, when things start to escalate, send them to “Their place” which may be a dog bed etc in opposite corners of the room.

I also remember you saying that you will travel to train.  At what age would you recommend that?  I hope you can help me a little.  It has been a lot of work training them. Generally the stuff done before one year of age builds foundation for later formal stuff. Young puppies can learn all the command set, but it has to be repeated nearly daily to stick, whereas when we work older dogs they retain their learning a little longer between sessions.

Thanks,

Melissa